i ever been asked by someone about these..few times..
Q - to care or to be taken care? to love or to be loved?
my A - both..you cannot pour from an empty cup..so, you need to take care of yourself first before taking care of others..love yourself before u love others ❤ so that u will place it at the right person..and receive the same..
macamana nak memberi sedang kita pun ternanti untuk menerima kan?
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Q - why?and how?
my A - if you not loving yourself first, you will question every love that u give/share with others..you will always think that its unfair for you to just giving without getting it back..kesian la diri sendiri too..how? know your worth..so that you will not care for wrong person ❤
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learn on appreciating and loving yourself first before you start loving others..
tak salah untuk sentiasa dahulukan orang lain..but never forget yourself..after all, you the one that deserve your love the most; the one that will hug you silently when people turn their back on you..so, love yourself first :)
hari2, cuba say thankyou kat diri sendiri..cuba appreciate and say that you did a great job everyday..
by loving yourself only then you will not hesitate to pour your love onto others :)
dan loving yourself tak menidakkan perasaan orang lain..loving yourself tak bermaksud membenarkan orang lain disakiti..you still can love yourself without hurting others :) love yourself, at the same time - respect others :)
after all, your mental health deserve your attention too right? its not worth it for you to sacrifice your mental health for the sake of others :)
xoxo,
yanie
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