never judge

 assalamualaikum w.b.t...

 

 

 

tahun 2020 ni tahun paling lama stay at home kan..so one of the hikmah is i can spend more time on my blog :)

so, about the title of the entry - never judge .

today tergerak to write about this topic..

some people suka judge orang based on superficial things that they see..and as for me, i don't favor that..

 

everytime i met with these kinda people, i will distract myself by tengok fon ke, buat2 macam tak dengar ke..sebab sometimes i don't know how to stop certain people from judging other people..tapi diri sendiri tak suka nak dengar pun benda tu..if yang tengah bercakap tu person yang me dekat/rapat boleh je nak tegur..but if not that close me pun still jaga air muka dia jugak..siapalah saya disitu untuk tiba2 tegur kan :)

 

"eh why dia tu dah tua2 pun still study.." 

"why si A tak kerja lagi.."

"why si B takde partner lagi.."

 

why this why that..and followed by answers from the one yang questions themselves..

 

"ni mesti sebab etc etc.."

hmm..why nak question everything?

 

Dari Abu Hurairah r.a, bahwasanya Rasulullah s.a.w bersabda: “Jauhilah prasangka buruk, kerana prasangka buruk adalah sedusta-dustanya perkataan.” (HR. Bukhari 5143 dan Muslim 2563) 

 

if you ever been thinking or terdetik to put answer on things that doesn't flows normally like you ever seen before, just keep mum :) tak semua situation perlu lalu flow yang sama..tak semua benda perlu ikut perjalanan yang sama..

you never know the hidden story behind a small curve on someone's face :)

just put this in mind - a person is just like a tip of an iceberg..you only see the surface..not the whole things..so never make assumptions on anything..you never know what kind of life a person went through to stand where they stand today..you never know what kind of tests they had been through..

 

pernah dengar tak kisah pasal a Dr that unintentionally upsetting his patient? yanie attach sekali lagi story tu sebab for me its a good one :) 

 

A doctor was called one evening for an urgent surgery. He answered the call, changed his clothes,reached hospital in minutes & went directly to the surgery block. He found the boy's father waiting,in the hall for the doctor. On seeing him, the dad yelled,

 

"Why did U take all this time to come? Don't you know that my son's life is in danger? Don't youhave any sense of responsibility?" 

 

The doctor smiled & said: "I am sorry, I wasn't in the hospital & I came as fast as I could afterreceiving the call......And now, I wish you'd calm down so that I can do my work"

 

"Calm down?! What if your son was in this room right now,would you calm down? If your own son dies now what will you do??" said the father angrily.

 

The doctor smiled again & replied: "I will say what Quran say:"We come from Allah,and to him we will return". Doctors cannot prolong lives.Go & intercede for your son, we will do our best by God's grace"

 

"Giving advises when we're not concerned is so easy" Murmured the father.

 

The surgery took some hours after which the doctor went out happy, "Thank goodness!, your son is saved!"And without waiting for the father's reply he carried on his way running. 

 

"If you have any question, ask the nurse!!"

 

"Why is he so arrogant?He couldn't wait some minutes so that I ask about my son's state"

 

Commented the father when seeing the nurse minutes after the doctor left. The nurse answered,tears coming down her face,

"His son died yesterday in a road accident, he was in the burial when we called him for your son's surgery. And now that he saved your son's life, he left running to finish his son's burial. "

-end-

if you can't make someone happy, atleast don't add their burden..

tak semua orang nak bercerita kisah hidup dia dengan orang lain..and even if you have a friend yang always cerita anything to you pun, always borrow your shoulder to cry on pun, you can never said that you truly know that person..apa yang dia story to you mungkin just a tiny bit of what he/she had been through..and maybe it just to relief their feelings at that moment je..so you still have no right to tell anything or judge anything only based on that..

 

just, be a nice person :) close your mind from judging others..sebagaimana kamu tak suka orang lain question your life, your face, your rezeki, macam tu jugak orang lain :)

so, practice to be nice..to everyone :)

 

"Hai orang-orang yang beriman, jauhilah kebanyakan prasangka buruk (kecurigaan), karena sebagian dari prasangka buruk itu dosa. Dan janganlah sebagian kalian mencari-cari keburukan orang dan menggunjing satu sama lain. Adakah seorang di antara kamu yang suka memakan daging saudanya yang sudah mati? Maka tentulah kalian merasa jijik kepadanya. Dan bertakwalah kepada Allah. Sesungguhnya Allah Maha Penerima Taubat lagi Maha Penyayang." - Al-Hujurat:12

 

 xoxo,

yanie