berdakwah biar berhemah

assalamualaikum w.b.t...



“Dan hendaklah ada di antara kamu segolongan umat yang menyeru kepada kebajikan, menyuruh kepada yang ma'ruf dan mencegah dari yang mungkar; merekalah orang-orang yang beruntung” - (Surah Al-Imran: 104
)

selagi bergelar muslim,hidup di bumi Allah,kita takkan lari dari tanggungjawab menyebarkan dakwah.. sama ada secara direct ataupun tidak..
 
dalam kehidupan seharian kita tanpa sedar kita indirectly menyumbang kepada penyebaran dakwah walaupun mungkin sekecil yang tak terbayangkan..

never say that you unworthy to sebarkan dakwah sebab sendiri pun belum perfect.. islam tak pernah cakap nak berdakwah kena perfect dulu..kena jadi alim ulamak dulu..even if you feel that you are nothing pun, you still play an important role in the community untuk tunjukkan teladan terbaik yang mencerminkan agama islam..

"Sampaikan kepadaku walaupun sepotong ayat" - HR Bukhari
 
secara tak langsung tanpa sedar you might touch someone's heart untuk mula mendekati islam..and might make someone yang dah islam untuk lagi nampak keindahan islam..

in this world, everyone saling complete each other..bukan sorang je yang play role to feed, another play role to eat :)
 
and kita jugak perlu terima nasihat daripada orang lain..jangan pernah perlekehkan sesuatu nasihat even yang bagi advice tu just budak kecik umur empat tahun pun..kalau nasihat tu berguna,kita ambik :)

"jangan lihat kepada siapa yang memberi nasihat..lihatlah kepada apa yang diucapkannya"

but sometimes mungkin cara someone menyampaikan dakwah tu yang tak tepat.. tu je part yang buat orang susah nak terima.. 

some of us might love to use konsep 'dakwah sentap'..as for me, i choose to be different..tak semua orang mampu proses apa yang disampaikan orang lain melalui cara yang hurtful and 'slapped with the facts'..

why not try to pakai cara lembut dulu..itu lebih mudah untuk reach the other party..

"selamanya kelembutan takkan pernah tewas dengan kekerasan"

for someone yang already born in islamic family, someone yang parents dia dah terapkan basic islam sejak kecil, things might be easier for them..just nak tambah2 sikit2 to complete the missing piece je..

but it never easy for someone yang lahir2 je tahu diri sendiri islam je...thats all..and they need to find out on themselves..tiba2 dapat sarcastic, harsh words, isnt that unfair for them?

as we living in a huge community..everyone ada different background, different growing culture yang we will never know the full story of each one..so tak boleh la pukul rata je everyone kan :)

dakwah tu ada banyak cara..you can choose to use either one..why not guna cara lembut..

“Serulah (manusia) kepada jalan Tuhan-mu dengan hikmah dan pelajaran yang baik dan bantahlah mereka dengan cara yang baik" - (Surah Al-Nahl: 125)

yes, certain manusia sekarang perlu direct talk..terkadang perlu disedarkn dengan cara 'slapping with the facts'..sometimes mungkin perlu sarcastic..but not all the time, not for everyone..

for me i think its better to use the simple one..tak bazir tenaga,tak bazir suara..bukankah yg lmbut itu lebih indah..do it step by step..yg nk didakwah tu manusia.. and manusia ada akal, ada emosi..

why not tiru gaya Rasulullah..dibaling batu dilempar najis tetap jua senyum :) 

bila kita guna kekerasan,akan ada penghadang pada si penerima..at last satu je yg akan sampai pada mad'u - tone suara..:) isi? bertaburan :)

**untuk menyampaikan apa yang kita faham dan ingin benda tu difahami oleh orang yang kita nak sampaikan tu, kita pun perlu muhasabah diri..jangan rasa diri terlampau sempurna sampai kita perlekehkan orang yang punya kurang pengetahuan dari kita :) mungkin apa yang kita tahu, mereka masih samar2..tapi mungkin juga ada bahagian yang sebaliknya :)

“Dan tidak ada yang lebih baik perkataannya daripada orang yang menyeru kepada (mengesakan dan mematuhi perintah) Allah, serta ia sendiri mengerjakan amal yang soleh, sambil berkata: "Sesungguhnya aku adalah dari orang-orang Islam (yang berserah bulat-bulat kepada Allah)" - (Surah Al-Fussilat: 33)


xoxo,
yanie

things to know before beginning medschool

 assalamualaikum w.b.t...
 
 


disclaimer: this is all from my POV only :)
some had been asking me about important things to know before entering medical school..these are my opinions and my pov based on my experiences..maybe different people have different voices to say..

if you have different things to share you can list out below in the comments box :)

so, lets begin...


1) study skills
- maybe the name 'medicine' synonyms with the word 'study'..but study is a huge word..not everyone have the same study style..so, find your own..jangan ikut orang :) 
- some students might love to study in groups - having discussions etc..but some find it better to study alone..either one is good as long as you comfortable :)
- stick to your style unless you find the need of changing the style (for the better) :)
- but if you have friends that have different study styles dont let it affect your friendship :)
 
2) its okay to not know everything
- some might thought that medical students need to know everything..no its not..take your time..one at a time is okay..
- its okay to ask any questions (even if you find it kinda silly) .. remember - no question is a silly question

3) never compare yourself with others
- never ever compare yourself dengan classmates or anyone pun..nak ambik sikit2 yang mana baik dari others is okay..tapi jangan sampai you down-kan diri sendiri..
- everyone ada pace sendiri..if someone study harini, harini jugak ingat, and you tak macamtu, its okay..you have your own time..
- if someone study kena ada study group, but you takleh absorb by study group, takpe..study sendiri :)

4) its okay to ask for help
- if you think that you need to ask someone to help you in study, its okay to ask anyone to help you out with that..but choose the one that you comfortable with..not necessarily from your circle :)

5) stress come from the exam; not the study itself..so, prepare everyday
- the most stressful things in medical school as for me is exam..study is not that stressful..until you get the date for the exam; then you realized you know nothing :D so, at least read something everyday :)

6) there's a LOT of helpful apps in playstore that can be downloaded to help in your study
- Amboss
- Mednotes
- Medscape
- Teach Me Anatomy
- MSD Manual
- .......and so many more
 
7) to stay is harder than entering
- being accepted into medical school is just the beginning..medical school can be rough..you need to polish yourself everyday, self-motivate yourself to stay in the line :) 
 
8) medical school needs LOTs of money
- not just the fees is huge amount..but in between the years also will demand you a huge amount of money..you will need to buy all the equipments on your own, all the activities also need to be paid on your own..
- taking medicine is kinda like having expensive hobby :D
**me include this point here as i think kadang people mislook at this one..bukan nak cakap kena jadi kaya baru boleh ambik medic..just be prepared..takdela nanti tekejut tiba2 kena beli itu ini which cost u a lot every time :)

9) medicine not for those with no passion
 - maybe most of the people thought that you just need a genius brain to enter medical school - then it all set..nope..medical school isn't for the brilliant one only..
- if you enter medical school only based on your academic result without any passion, you will just torture yourself..and soon to torture the patients..
- what more important is to have interest, to have passion in this profession..this one is huge enough to help you surviving medical school :)

10) MEDICINE IS ALL ABOUT LUCK
- yes..medicine is all about luck after dah masuk nanti..why? sebab you need to learn everything from A-Z, yang masuk exam QRS je..
- dia macam, you baca la semua benda pun, kadang benda yang you focus tu tak masuk langsung or masuk sipi2, yang tak focus sangat tu pulak yang masuk for highest marks..and that topic je yang kawan you betul2 focus..maka bila dalam exam, you tak dapat jawab, dia dpt jawab..grade akan side to kawan you la kan..so yeah..begitulah..
- and another about luck is, waktu clinical exam..if you 'lucky' enough and dapat examiner yang strict, then the 'luck'is on you..
- so, if you belum apply for medschool, still hesitate etc, fikir btul33333 dulu before apply..if you already begin or in the middle of medschool, dont be sad..it is unfair to feel that, but, its gonna pass <3
- cuma janganla pulak all the time nak blame the luck..perlu study tu memang perlu la kan..tak study jangan la pulak expect all on luck jugak :D


**may these sharing give a little help for those who still doubting on to-enter or not-to-enter medical school :)



xoxo,
yanie